According to https://www.verywellfamily.com/premature-birth-facts-and-statistics-2748469 as many as 11.4% of all pregnancies end in early deliveries and 80 + % of preterm births are unanticipated, whereof 30% are related to preterm rupture of membranes (as in our case).
Dear friends and family, please don’t tell us that we were unprepared, or we could have done things better as that is simply not true. We had our Plan B written down as part of our birth plan, but it all happens so much faster than one would ever expect.
To all the moms who have had preemies you are all brave and strong and it was not your fault! Remember, being the parent of a preemie means you are extra special. After all, God does not just pick anybody to witness a miracle. Don’t let those flashbacks, or those little triggers steal your joy of today, don’t let the nightmares steal your future dreams, because our little ones are BIG warriors with such bright futures, because they know the meaning of having to fight. Don’t let other’s opinions determine your child’s future, because I have lost count of the amounts of times that people have told me “he will be behind”, “preemies are usually slower” or “it’s okay if he can’t do this or that because he was prem”. Their opinions mean nothing, because they do not know the fighter within my child and he has proven them all wrong, time and time again, and so will yours.